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BWW Cabaret's PUTTING IT TOGETHER: GUTLESS & GRATEFUL - Putting It Together + Showtime!

BWW Cabaret's PUTTING IT TOGETHER: GUTLESS & GRATEFUL - Putting It Together + Showtime!

This post is part of PUTTING IT TOGETHER, a monthly series of narratives from artists putting together cabaret shows in New York. Each edition will be written (or told to BroadwayWorld) by the show's creator, and consists of three to four parts about the show's conception, creative process, and execution.

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As September rolled around, the press releases were out, the dress was fitted, and now was time for the finishing touches to make it all feel so real. I took great pride in designing the program pamphlet for my show and used it as a chance to give thanks to all the doctors that got me here. This was something I had dreamed of doing from the hospital: a giant celebration when I was happy, healthy and happy, where I could be on stage, look my doctors in the eye, and thank them for giving me back my life.

When GUTLESS & GRATEFUL premiered in New York at The Triad in October 2012, everything came to fruition. I stopped comparing myself to others and realized that I had stayed true to myself. I was still the same performer I had always aspired to be, but now I was telling my own story rather than playing an ingénue in GUYS & DOLLS. It took more work, with a rockier path, but I was performing theatre that connected with audiences on an even broader level. Total strangers felt like they knew me and offered me their own stories. For the first time, my story was being told in my own words. It was now no longer Amy Oestreicher, the woman whose stomach exploded, but Amy Oestreicher, the actress, expressing her inspiring tale at The Triad. It felt like springboard for even more opportunity and my bridge to the world.

Of course, there were plenty of naysayers. I hadn't done a show for years. What did I know about producing my own show in New York? It's natural when someone tells you you can't do something to think about it a bit. Many times I believed them. I went to auditions with bags attached to me, attended hot yoga daily while connected to an IV pump, and have gotten many funny looks and some awkward situation that embarrassed and upset me. It's difficult to ignore what other people think of a career move, or a comment that touches on an insecurity. While creating GUTLESS & GRATEFUL, it was easy to compare myself to former colleagues that were doing theatre, but "bigger" and "better" than I was--- on Broadway, on tours, seemingly "breezing through" their career.

But I think the most important (and difficult) thing for me was patience. Telling myself that I will get there--- this is my own unique path, and as long as I am still doing what I love, in whatever shape or form, I am staying authentic to my own path. I didn't let food scare me for all of those years it could have killed me, so how could I get stage fright now?

BWW Cabaret's PUTTING IT TOGETHER: GUTLESS & GRATEFUL - Putting It Together + Showtime!
Oestreicher debuts GUTLESS & GRATEFUL at The Triad in 2012.
Photos courtesy of the artist.

After I performed, I didn't realize how people would be affected. Not only did they empathize with my ups and downs, they were laughing with me! I connected to the world, and to my own community again, something I desperately needed and what has always drawn me to theatre in the first place.

My first performance at The Triad brought everything full circle. It was a frightening, bold, vulnerable, and breathtaking experience. In it, I told everything: the pain, the joy, the fury, all with music, drama, and humor, most importantly. I had played "roles" before, but for the first time, I was honestly revealing my own medical and emotional struggles for hundreds of strangers every night. It was a risk to lay my soul bare, but the reward was in how my own vulnerability caused others to become vulnerable and moved by my own struggles.

Just before opening night, as my mother helped me get into my red dress, she looked at me, like she looked at her "old daughter" getting dressed for a middle school musical. She slipped my red dress over a new body, battered, bruised, covered in scars, bags and medical tape. But my earrings were sparkling, my eyes were stained with eyeliner---not tears---and now I had tape for my body mic, in addition to my ostomy bag. I was not defeated. This could be a new start.

I walked out on stage, sat at my desk in the downstage right corner that we had so carefully marked down with tape. I was more nervous than I could ever remember and could hardly breathe. The lights were dark, but I could see the glasses of audience members in a packed house. Who was here? As the lights began to brighten, I could recognize friends, family, all waiting to hear me sing...

"Deep breaths, deep breaths Amy..."

The crowd was quiet. Jerold, on the piano to my left, started the intro we had rehearsed a trillion times. The band started to play, my brother behind me, and I felt support in a theatre from literally all sides. Here I was, with one chance to prove something, to sing. To make sure my body mic was on...

The intro stopped, and I looked up at the audience to sing, "I've an unrest inside me."

And, boy, did I have an unrest.

From my journal at that time:

October 19: Yay! It went better than I ever could have expected!

October 21: My show is sold out! Heaven! They had to add seats!

October 25: I don't want this show to end at The Triad. Must get this produced after. So I spend 6 hours sending emails to producers, and I even got a few responses!

October 26: Amazing finish! House was filled, and the general manager said he'd love for me to do an extended run one day! Maybe after surgery. But the biggest surprise of the night: William Finn showed up. I was shocked! On the way home, parents kept saying what a positive experience this all was. I'm so glad. Think of how many people I touched through this!

This wasn't the path I planned for myself, but does anyone's life ever work out exactly how they plan it?

My stomach exploded. My world changed in an instant. My life took a detour as all lives do. So, I made the best of it, and now I have my detour to thank for all the gifts in my life. As actors, we tell stories constantly. I first told mine over six years ago and continue to do so, not only to myself, but to complete strangers and New York Theatregoers. Every time I "perform" what happened to me, I find myself somehow transformed in the process. Theatre has the power to change lives, both for those directly involved and those who watch. Theatre teaches us we're capable of anything, and usually tells us this at times we need it most.

After my show, people would come up to me and tell me how inspired they had been by my story. They would almost apologize, as if ashamed that their own problems could possibly compare. This always struck me odd because I believe that suffering is relative. Although my situation was extreme, I experienced universal feelings that everyone goes through in life, whether it's a surgery, a break-up, or a broken heart. Whatever the story, it is ours and uniquely ours and we all have to get it out there. Through telling our stories, we realize that we are not alone. We feel connected by a shared experience, and this experience strengthens us just enough to keep getting through life's experiences day after day!

This realization I had that we all need to tell our stories inspired me to start leading workshops about the healing power of our storytelling to organizations, schools, and under-served communities.

BWW Cabaret's PUTTING IT TOGETHER: GUTLESS & GRATEFUL - Putting It Together + Showtime!
Oestreicher gets ready to follow Linda Eder
at Feinstein's/54 Below.

In between my national tour to these non-traditional venues, I continued to do theatres, festivals, and was even personally invited by Bill Finn to perform as part of his cabaret series at Barrington Stage Festival. Some highlights include winning The Singular Award for most innovative performance at the SaraSolo Festival, being a NYC Bistro Top Pick, and most definitely being nominated for Best Theatre Debut by the one and only BroadwayWorld!

I think my musical theater dream came full circle this June, when I got to perform the show to a packed, enthusiastic crowd at Feinstein's/54 Below... right after Linda Eder!

Performing at 54 Below brought everything full circle for me. I remember first coming to the "new" 54 Below when David Friedman had invited me to see LISTEN TO MY HEART, a collection of his songs, shortly after he had mentored me on GUTLESS & GRATEFUL. I remember descending those stairs, walking into a crowded room with a cool, cabaret-savvy audience, blue lighting, elegant chandeliers, and most excitingly, walking in there for the first time as not a patient, but a fellow performer who would now have a new solo show under her belt! But, of course, a venue like this was the farthest thought from my mind in 2012. I sat back in awe as David played his beautiful music sung by a handful of soaring voices and dreamed of my opening night.

Fast forward to June 30, 2017, almost six years later. I had sung these songs around the country with hardly a few weeks rest, and had caught quite a few amazing shows at the new Feinstein's/54 Below when I had the chance. Now, I descended those red steps once again with my hair in curlers and that same red dress, hearing Linda Eder belt out her last few showstoppers. Was this really happening?

BWW Cabaret's PUTTING IT TOGETHER: GUTLESS & GRATEFUL - Putting It Together + Showtime!
Oestreicher (with Goldstein on the piano) at 54 Below.

This performance was a culmination of everything, from having just done two shows nearby at the Metropolitan Room, flying out to Minnesota to watch a college senior perform it, all of the highs, lows, and surgeries in between. The audience loved every second, although I know I must have enjoyed it 10 times more, and after having a standing ovation, my mother ran backstage (we learned the hard way many times to make sure the mic was off!) and ran around like little kids. We had done it! As a family, we had made it through. My mother could still remember David's show, the dinners we ordered, and having this show go off without a hitch was a gift from the Gods of New York Theatre and cabaret!

What's next? Well, now that I'm licensing the show for students to perform themselves, I'm confident that GUTLESS & GRATEFUL will keep living on, and I'm excited to go into develop new plays, new musicals, and stories that have nothing to do with my own!

But every time I perform the show, I remember WHY I perform it, and that same opening night thrill runs through my veins. Next year, I'll be touring the show to even more cities, including the Hamptons, Cleveland, San Diego, Orlando, Boston, and Atlanta.

If there is one thing I've learned through life, it's to never give up. Persistence, in every respect. Keep going, never giving up, even when I was exhausted or overwhelmed by the idea of what I wanted to accomplish. I literally was a girl waking up from a coma trying to find her place in a big world. I didn't know where to start. So, I just started somewhere, anywhere, and just kept going from there--- blindly, at first, but eventually finding a focus and then just following it intently. Persistence softened with a faith that with that determination, I would get there.

As a performer, all I want to do is give back to the world. Being up on stage and singing is one part of the joy, but what brings the process full circle is knowing that somewhere in the audience, I am affecting someone and making them think in a different way. That is the power of theatre: stirring you to see things differently. Doing what I love, my passion can freely flow through my veins once again, and I'm a person now, not just a patient or a medical miracle. Passion may not heal 27 surgeries, but passion has healed my heart. My passion has re-anchored me in who I am. And for that, I am gutless and grateful.

Amy Oestreicher continues to perform GUTLESS & GRATEFUL across the country. For upcoming events, visit

PUTTING IT TOGETHER is a monthly series of narratives from artists constructing and performing cabaret shows in New York. For more information or to join the series, email us.

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