Review: MANAGE YOUR EXPECTATIONS at Circa from House of Sand

Manage Your Expectations takes the concept of the “trigger warning” and pushes it to its absurdist edge, using sharp humour to interrogate the idea of informed consent. It asks, provocatively: How much do you really want to know? Created and performed by the multi-award-winning theatrical maverick Eliza Sanders, this work explores the limits of language, the failures of communication, and the slippery nature of meaning.

Before the show begins, we’re told by Charley Allanah—director and co-founder of House of Sand—that this will be the company’s final production. Founded in 2015 by Charley and her sister Eliza, House of Sand has delivered a rich body of work over the past decade. This announcement casts a bittersweet shadow over the evening, adding emotional weight to the performance.

The staging is minimal: a screen, a camera, and Eliza herself in a simple t-shirt and loose white pants. As she enters, the camera activates, projecting the audience onto the screen. What follows is a witty and well-crafted monologue about language and the multiplicity of meanings behind words. It’s clever, funny, and deceptively light—setting the tone for what’s to come, though nothing could truly prepare us for the second half.

The interplay between screen and camera is central to the experience. Delayed projections—by 1, 2, 3, and 4 seconds—create a mesmerizing visual echo, as Eliza’s movements ripple across time. It’s a brilliant use of technology that deepens the thematic exploration of perception and reality.

Eliza’s dancing is extraordinary. Her physicality—fluid, precise, and demanding—is a testament to her skill and stamina. The sweat glistening on her skin is a visible reminder of the effort behind the elegance.

Visually stunning and intellectually provocative, this is a complex piece of theatre that resists easy interpretation. It invites the audience to decide for themselves how to engage with it, and what meaning to take away.

At just 75 minutes, the show is densely packed with ideas, movement, and emotion. It’s a shame it’s only running for five nights—Manage Your Expectations deserves a longer season at Circa.