"Didn’t Neil Simon write a play about this topic?"
Neil Simon wrote "The Prisoner of Second Avenue" which is about a man having a midlife crisis. In the play, he does portray some frustrating aspects of living in New York City. It's sort of the bookend to his play "Barefoot In The Park" which portrays a young couple in love with NYC.
If anyone ever tells you that you put too much Parmesan cheese on your pasta, stop talking to them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.
I have lived many places over the years and people are the same no matter where you go. When someone categorizes people in a certain city or region it usually says more about the person themselves.
I will say that the pandemic has caused some street and store bickering in terms of social distancing, touching various avocados to see which one is ripe and mask wearing. I saw a couple with face masks and plastic shields chew out two Asian pedestrians at the produce stand for touching the goods. I was snapped at by someone who said I was to close on the Upper West Side although that was happening in the anal retentive area long before Covid19.
I've lived in Manhattan for about 10 years and have never had any interest in leaving the borough until this pandemic started. I'm quarantined by myself in my apartment, and I wish I had access to a place outside the city (or even an outer borough), where I could have some more space and not feel as stuck. This is not the New York City I know and love. I miss having dinner at a restaurant with friends, seeing a show, going to the movies, even working in my office. This isn't my New York. I hope that in time, NYC feels more like home again.
My father was born in Manhattan and raised there during the depression. On my first trip there as a child he actually warned me about some of the things many of you are talking about. My experience, whether visiting relatives or not has varied depending on the times. I have found that to be true everywhere else as well. But it seems logical that this catastrophe would have a negative effect on the personality of many. How could it not? I have it much better than most on the west coast. Frankly, when I think of my family and friends in NYC, I am reminded of the song Waving Through The Window. I admire the extra courage and discipline shown by most of you. I have always had those feelings about people who must deal both with big city life as well as those who live in very rural areas. Those of us in the suburbs have it much easier and in my mind, miss the highs and lows.
ahhrealmonsters said: "I've lived in Manhattan for about 10 years and have never had any interest in leaving the borough until this pandemic started. I'm quarantined by myself in my apartment, and I wish I had access to a place outside the city (or even an outer borough), where I could have some more space and not feel as stuck. This is not the New York City I know and love. I miss having dinner at a restaurant with friends, seeing a show, going to the movies, even working in my office. This isn't my New York. I hope that in time, NYC feels more like home again."
A friend of mine who has lived in Manhattan for nearly 50 years put it like this to me the other day: Right now, we have to deal with all the disadvantages of living in the city and none of the advantages. None of the reasons we moved here in the first place. That certainly makes everything seem harder, but I cling to the hope that it will come back, in some form or another.
If we're not having fun, then why are we doing it?
These are DISCUSSION boards, not mutual admiration boards. Discussion only occurs when we are willing to hear what others are thinking, regardless of whether it is alignment to our own thoughts.