"He found something that he wanted, had always wanted and always would want— not to be admired, as he had feared; not to be loved, as he had made himself believe; but to be necessary to people, to be indispensable."
-F. Scott Fitzgerald's This Side of Paradise
There was an on stage marriage proposal at a performance of THE WEDDING SINGER a few years ago.
At least it was sort of appropriate for that show.
"Winning a Tony this year is like winning Best Attendance in third grade: no one will care but the winner and their mom."
-Kad
"I have also met him in person, and I find him to be quite funny actually. Arrogant and often misinformed, but still funny."
-bjh2114 (on Michael Riedel)
The first time I heard "Grow Old With You" in the movie, I cried. Is that pathetic? Maybe. I could see a proposal after that number.......since that's the plot anyway.......
Oh dear. What if someone had the idea to create a musical or a play that involved a wedding, and every performance two chosen audience members could have their actual ceremony onstage as a part of the show? The actor would, of course, be legit. THAT would be a bad trend.
"Would not want a proposal that way, personally, but it was thoughtful."
I wouldn't either. Many consider a public proposal to be bad luck.
I know of someone who wanted to do this at a different show a few months ago but they couldn't because neither of them were equity so management wouldn't allow them onstage.
"All our dreams can come true -- if we have the courage to pursue them." -- Walt Disney
We must have different Gods. My God said "do to others what you would have them do to you". Your God seems to have said "My Way or the Highway".
Call me a sap, but I think this is INCREDIBLY romantic. Maybe not for the average person, but for someone who loves a show as much as she apparently does, I think the proposal was entirely appropriate... I want mine to be along the same lines... :P
I think it's a great idea, actually I already thought of it and was planning it for a show in October now these turds stole my thunder. Oh, well I'm gonna try it anyway because my girlfriend will love it and she doesn't know about this proposal.
And j/k about them being turds, I wish them best of luck.
I think it's really nice, even though the content of the show is weird for a proposal, the point is that she's a huge fan of the show and he paid attention to that.
I understand that people will disagree with me, but MY OPINION is that public proposals are simply awful - a really hardcore piece of emotional blackmail and not very considerate to the hundreds of witnesses who neither know nor care who you are, but will unfairly hate the object of your proposal if s/he dares say no, so s/he has to say yes. Even if I were being publicly proposed to by someone I *did* want to spend the rest of my life with, I'd say no anyway, because it wouldn't feel like I was being given a legitimate choice. Not just because I'm a super-biotch. I want someone to ask me to marry them because they want me to choose them to be with forever. It's very much a two-way thing.
Anyway. I'm just explaining why I don't like the idea, so you realise I have valid reasons and am not just being cynical. I don't expect anyone to necessarily agree. ^_^
I've always wanted to see a public proposal where the person turned it down.
I, personally, would never propose to anyone in a public space - for risk of embarrassment - but only for the fact that I'd be embarrassed doing so. I, after all, hate when people sing "happy birthday" to me in restaurants.
But to each his own. Mazel Tov to the happy couple.