BWW Interviews: Allison and Rex of Ballet West and the CW's BREAKING POINTE on Real Life

BWW Interviews: Allison and Rex of Ballet West and the CW's BREAKING POINTE on Real Life

I recently had the honor and privilege to sit down and chat with Allison DeBona of Ballet West and the CW's Breaking Pointe. I found Allison very easy to talk with and I learned a lot about her life, dancing and yes, her relationship with Rex Tilton. And Rex eventually opened up a bit too.

You started dancing at age three. Why did your parents put you in ballet over anything else?

They put me in ballet and gymnastics and I just chose ballet. There was a moment, that I remember fondly, when I was in a class and, being little, there wasn't much dancing, basically you just run around and I had to run across the floor and pretend that I was picking up a flower and put it in a basket and I just loved that. I just loved to dance and I would never stop; I always danced around the house. I was always the youngest in all of my classes and being around the older girls was intoxicating enough to make me want to be like them.

Do you remember your first ballet teachers and their influence on you?

I recently went back to my first ballet company in Pennsylvania for the first time since I was twelve. So, I hadn't seen this my ballet teacher, Debbie, for 17 years. And she gave one of her speeches and it was like she hadn't changed at all. She was just one of those women who everything she ever taught me was about finding yourself and being different and learning how to be a performer, because that is more important. She didn't like competition in the room, she just said every part was important. It was never a hostile environment. I think there is a difference now in training than there was when I was young. I remember my mother never being allowed in the studio. She would drop me off, and you were at your other home, and my teachers were another set of parents and you were left to be raised at the ballet studio, but it was okay because you were learning a discipline that helps you in so many ways. Kids today are so coddled and my mom was never like that. She never let me complaint. If I would say something was unfair, she would always ask me what I was going to do to change it.

What kind of child were you?

I was out there. I don't think I'm that different now. I used to sing and do a lot of different things, not just dancing.

You stopped dancing for a while. Why and what made you come back?

My parents got divorced and I had to change schools, and at the new ballet school I was a young little girl dancing with 18 year-olds and they didn't like that, so I remember thinking that something has to change. It was really hard when I came back to dancing. I remember thinking that ballet was a lot easier when I was younger and I've never recovered from that. But I made some goals, even when I wasn't dancing, that I wanted to be on stage. When I came back, we were doing Stars and Stripes and I remember that this was what I wanted to do.

When are you performing, are you a meticulous counter, do you say the steps in your head, or do you just get lost in the music?

Usually I'm super nervous until my foot hits the stage and then I calm down, generally. Only a few times have I stayed nervous. I don't think so much about the steps, because I think when you've rehearsed so much, your body knows what to do, and if you think too much about that then you lose the performance aspect of it all. But I do drive myself insane in the studio, when we're rehearsing.

What is a normal day for you?

We start ballet class at 10:00 and that ends at 11:30. Then we rehearse from 11:45 until 6:45. The day doesn't seem that long, because we have to go and do something that is super energetic. It's hard at the beginning of the season, when we've been off, but then it stars to feel normal.

Have you had any major injuries that you thought might be the end of your career?

I had one serious injury in my senior year of high school where I torn the place where my Achilles heel and my calf met. It was a partial tear, so I was in a boot for three months. Other than that, I suffer injuries, my back goes out all the time and I have an issue with my hip. I'm pretty sure I have arthritis everywhere.

If you weren't a ballet dancer, what would you be doing?

I've always been interested in journalism. I started studying journalism in college.

What is your favorite role you've done? (Rex finally joined in the conversation!)

Allison: I always like doing contemporary work, but I could do Swan Lake everyday and not get bored.

Rex: Swan Lake. Is the best full-length ballet. Cinderella and Sleeping Beauty are very trite. If we did Romeo and Juliet and I got to be Tybalt, that is my dream role. I think he's a bad ass.

Allison: I've never dreamt about doing roles, because you're just sad if you don't get it. Most little girls want to be Cinderella or Aurora, because I don't think I embody either of them. I can't relate to either of them. But Giselle or Odette I would love to do.

About Breaking Pointe, how did you get picked to do that?

Rex: The BBC approached us and said they wanted to do a mini-documentary, that's how it was presented to us, and they did not have a network for it yet. They said they just wanted to get things going and after we agreed on our contracts, we found out the CW was going to be our network.

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Melissa Hurst Since her first ballet class at the age of three, Melissa has been in love with performing. She enjoys being in, and seeing all types of shows (the good, the bad and everything in between!). When she's not drinking in the theater atmosphere, Melissa spends her time with her amazing husband and beautiful daughter.