Ralph Harper Releases STEPPED UP: THE URGENCY FOR FATHERHOOD
While there's thousands of books on the market about parenting, none are as inspirational or heartfelt as the latest release by Ralph Harper. Unconventional yet truly empowering, the book's unique narrative calls on all parents of 'fatherless children' to step up to the plate and undertake the responsibilities that can change their lives and those of their children for the better.
While uplifting, 'Stepped Up: The Urgency for Fatherhood' doesn't sugarcoat the vital issues at hand. Keeping it real and telling his story exactly as it happened, Harper's raw, hard-hitting and frankly-honest accounts depict his own experiences with vivid impact.
Synopsis: In his emotional and at times shocking debut, author, Ralph Harper shares the journey he and his stepson, Cody, took as Harper comported himself as Cody's father in the absence of Cody's biological father.
The confluence of their stories is compelling as Cody's antics as a child and as he grew into adulthood tested Harper's parenting calculus.
As the author explains, his thoughts on true fatherhood formed long before meeting Cody.
"I always denigrated my own father for not being close enough. However, after meeting Cody the realities hit me that this child was actually abandoned by his biological father. While my father wasn't a shining diamond, at least he didn't abandon me and my nine siblings. Cody was three years old when I met him and I made a firm decision to stay in his and my wife Sara's lives forever. However, after an unfortunate divorce in 2000, I made a conscious choice to stay in Cody's life and this allowed me to experience a profound revelation about the notion of parenting and the importance of fatherhood," says Harper.
Continuing, "I saw it as the only decision and one I was privileged to make. Cody was abandoned by his father after he had sporadically endangered his life. I chose to stay in Cody's life and he chose to stay in mine; our choices in this regard have yielded one of the most amazing journeys imaginable. This book tells that story and showcases our unbreakable bond." Continuing, "Cody and I have been through thick and thin together and emerged triumphant. I tell our story in hopes of making a difference by inspiring biological fathers to stay or go home to the children they gave life to. The gesture could change the world," he adds.
However, this isn't simply sharing a story. Harper hopes to raise a vital conversation about the importance of fatherhood.