He's been very cool the few times I've seen him. Once at Birdland before they were married and I watched him mesmerized watching her sing. Another time just passing him on the street and saying "Hey you, taking care of my girl", he smiled, turned around and said yes in passing. At Birdland he was extra cool, at the end of the show I said "Sebastian we need you outside and although he was talking to someone, he came out in the street and took his pic with my wife, stepdaughter, and friend.