People having trouble making and keeping plans

[Jane2]

^ perhaps that could be true if I were the one to suggest getting together, but I never am. These people contact me to meet up. In my mind, that says they want to.

[Jane2]

I would just like to end this thread by saying that I'm very fortunate to have wonderful friends whom I love a lot. These are the people who are important to me, and aren't like the ones described in this thread.

Life is too short to waste time with these issues I have raised here. I consider it to be a problem they have to deal with and not me. I have found, at this point in my life, that there are certain negatives and stresses we all have which are out of our control. But those things that we can control, I step away from.

[Hellob]

Your feelings are the best way to look at it. It's really not about you even though it's hurtful. Who knows, maybe they wanted to but gained weight and chickened out? People are weird. Like you said, life is short and the world is full of billions of people so don't let it get you down. Xo

[Jane2]

thanks, hellob.