These fans who complain about a performed not coming to the stage door should be publicly humiliated and shamed--no! they should be tarred and feathered--but mostly, they should be disallowed to ever attend another theatrical event again until they grow up.
For some reason, there is always something compelling about a romance-without-sex plot. Whether it is The King and I or My Fair Lady or a million other similar anti-romances, you know from the outset that the two main characters are ABSOLUTELY NOT going to get together. The tension then lies in how close are they going to get--how romantic, how sexual, how cerebral, how soul-mate-ish--and what will be the straw that breaks the camel's back and makes them go to battle. <